Thursday, July 18, 2013

I Support DD


 


MrBBSpanker from A Domestic Discipline Society is calling all DD bloggers to stand together, in the face of criticism, to stand up and be counted. Click  HERE to read MrBB's response.What DD has done for us is that it has given us the means to eliminate the power struggle between the two of us. There is no need for two leaders. It has shown us that one can lead and the other can assist in making decisions in where they want their relationship to go.

It has shown us how to communicate more because now that we operate as a team it is imperative to know what your partner is doing so that together we can make intelligent decisions. We find that we are helping each other more because I want to be with her, I want to make her life easier as she does mine. We don’t snip at each other as much and have learned to recognize when we are having problems and when they are starting to brew so we can nip them in the bud.

This blogging community is phenomenal. There are many occupations here from students to CEO’s writing about their successes and their trials and tribulations in their DD relationships. Yes, like any large community, there is disagreements and arguing going on but when someone is hurting everyone bands together to help. If there is a problem all you have to do is ask and many will respond with either kind words, prayers or advice that you might be able to use. 


Two good examples of this is when Bas lost his battle with cancer and passed away. Most of the people in blog land reacted with tears because a close friend was lost forever and posted on his blog one last time to say goodbye and another one is when a little girl was deathly sick the DD community held vigil prayers at 9pm, it was amazing the way everyone was informed how she was doing whenever an update was released.

We laugh at jokes, we cry or show concern when one of us is hurting. When we have good news or are proud of something that was accomplished everyone that reads your post celebrates and cheers with you. In some ways we are like real family and sometimes we are real family.  
 

 



 

 

13 comments:

  1. Very well said as usual my friend :)
    You've become a very supportive and caring member of this community.
    # MrBBSpanker

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    1. Thank you MRBB for your kind words

      Bob

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  2. Amen Bob, wonderful words and beautifully said. We have found the benefits to this lifestyle beyond what we imagined when we started out. This community never ceases to amaze me and I am so glad to be a part of it.

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. Hi Roz
      This small knit group of people are fantastic with the support that thet freely give and I say thank you all for your kindness

      Bob

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  3. So very true, and I fully agree!

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    1. Hi Julia


      thank you for leaving a comment

      bob

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  4. Absolutely true, Bob,I love how warm, welcoming and kind everyone is. From the first time I showed up in the chat room I was accepted and welcomed.

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    1. Hi Tara

      I like that everyone is willing to help wherever they can

      Bob

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  5. Hi, Bob. We're not dd, although we work hard at having the respect, teamwork, honor, trust, mutual betterment and many other dd goals. I support everyone who is working toward a better relationship, and I particularly support those who attempt what has to be the most difficult and intense way of improving their relationships. Dd couples are doing the harder stuff, but I think they are aiming for something much higher than average for their relationships.

    So, I support your decision, and your determination and right as a couple to pursue a wonderful relationship that is fulfilling to both of you.

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    1. Welcome Irishey

      Thank you for stopping by and leaving your comment here and thank you for your support

      Bob

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  6. Bob, our blog land around here has the most amazing group of supportive people. We are all like a big family. Sure glad that you see it too. I love your acronym TTTWD. I might have to start using that. I was going to start using abcBDDDD/sTTWDxyz. lol At least it covers most of what my husband and I do

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    1. Thanks for stopping by Blondie

      yes this is an amazing group of people here

      Bob

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  7. Even though we are not DD...I definitely support everyone here. TTWD has made us better!

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