Tuesday, September 10, 2013

Being a Spanko


We all have heard the expression being said “that person is a spanko”. That immediately tells you that they like spankings and they like giving or receiving them a lot, but a lot of people don't understand what it is like to be a spanko.

What is it like being a spanko? I am not any different than anyone you might see walking down the street. I dress like you, talk like you, I have the same concerns as how to raise a family, paying bills just like you in fact I could even be your next door neighbor.

The similarities end there because in my mind and behind closed doors I am very different from the non-spanko because there are times when it seems like all I think about is spanking a female’s backside day and night. We could be at a party, a store or just sitting down outside on the front porch and if a female walks by the first thing I focus on is her gludious Maximus and then start thinking about what it would be like spanking it. In other words, I think of spanking day and night.

I can't remember a time in my life that I didn't like spanking a female bottom. When I was a little tike I remember playing spanking games with the neighborhood girls. I was either their dad or their husband and somehow I always found out that they did something wrong. Whatever it was unimportant but the end game was that I got to spank them.

I realized that I was different from my friends when I became a teenager. None of my friends had the desire to swat a butt as she walked by them like I did. I suppressed my feelings for most of high school until the twelfth grade when I went on a date with Molly. After dinner and a movie while we were having coffee talking about our dreams when we got out of school, when unexpectedly I blurted out that I wanted to spank her. She just looked at me with a cocked head and then asked why.

I stuttered my answer telling her that I would enjoy spanking her butt and that it would be fun for the both of us it. I can now see that this spanking line was not the best ever said but it worked (lol). We went to a secluded place. She crawled over my lap and sighed with trembling hands I lifted her skirt and slowly pulled the hem up to her waist. Sucking in my breath loudly as I stared at what was before me. With shaking hands I reverently pulled her panties down to her knees. I patted it and kept my hand on her butt then I slowly started to spank her with great fascination as I spanked her. I saw her butt go from a light shade of pink to a healthy shade of a medium red. Time stood still, there was nothing else in the universe everything I had was focused on what lie over my lap at that moment, then I heard a noise.

Molly gave a little whimper, saying, “I’ll be a good girl”

That broke the spell of me spanking her. I helped her up and noticed a tear rolling down her cheek I asked her if she was ok and when she said “yes” I then asked her “why did you say that” she couldn’t explain it. She then proceeded to hit me in the arm telling me that if she has any bruises on her butt she was going to be mad at me because she had a doctor appointment tomorrow. Laughing and rubbing my arm, I said, “Why didn’t you tell me to stop then?”

“I didn’t stop you because you were enjoying yourself” We never saw each other after that. 

When the 90’s came while a lot of my friends were collecting sport cards going to shows getting cards signed by the players I was scouring the bookstores for spanking books and pictures. My friends had their most prized possession on display; I had mine hidden in between the mattress. The electronic age exploded on the scene and a whole new avenue opened up to us spankos. We now had access to movies, better stories, an unbelievable amount of pictures some good and a lot was junk.

This is what a spanko does, well at least this spanko does. I spend a huge amount of time thinking, looking, reading, and just spanking Bobbie whenever the chance presents itself.

When Bobbie sees that faraway look in my eyes she will ask me what I am either looking at or thinking about and I look at her with a smiling face saying “spanking you and then going into detail on how I was going to do it. She looks at me laughing calling me a goof and takes my hand as she leads me into the bedroom I am looking at the swaying backside in front of me thinking about…


Bob

28 comments:

  1. I couldn't help but to smile at this Bob. Cute Bobbie :)

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    1. Hello CoralZad
      Thank you for stopping by and leavinga comment
      Bob

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  2. I noticed when you said "when the 90s came"...
    is that the 1990s or when you were in your 90s? lol
    I always enjoy coming and reading here my friend!
    Your posts are always interesting and fun :)
    Your friend, (or at least I was until the 90s crack!!! lol)
    # MrBBSpanker

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    1. Hello MRBB

      Roflol there are days that I feel like I am 90 the way the old bones groan in the morning

      Oh yeah we are still good lol
      Bob

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  3. Yes I recognise this, but from a different point of view!!!

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  4. LOL Cute. That poor girl from when you were 18, she seemed to really hit a spot inside her, and now she'll be longing for it from some other guy. ;) Hopefully he'll be able to help her as much as you did that night. :)

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    1. Hi Es May

      I often wonder what ever became of her and if she became a spanko, my thoughts are yes there is a good chance she is because she was so open about it.

      Bob

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  5. Hi Bob, :)

    Thanks for sharing! This made me smile! Sounds like Mollie was a trooper to let you color her bottom years ago. And Bobbie. Well, sounds like she adores her spanko husband! Hugs to you,

    <3 Katie

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    1. Hello Katie

      I am sloooooollllyyyy turning Bobbie into a spanko well at least the girl kind WEG

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  6. I would love to hear how Molly tells the story. She's probably a spanko too, now! LOL.

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    1. Hello Renee

      I haven't heard from her after that night, I wonder what her story would be

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  7. I was wondering about Molly, too! It was really sweet she let you do it because you enjoyed it and you likely awakened something in her. lol When Jason and I were dating, I vividly remember the first time he spanked me! It was...amazing. And then after a while I got weirded out and told him to stop it for like, years. Clearly, we've moved past that. lol

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    1. Hello Jason Girl

      I find it fascinating the way we come to find our little niche in dd

      Bob

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  8. Thanks for sharing this Bob, made me smile, especially the last paragraph :)

    That was so awesome of Molly. I especially like that she didn't stop you because you were enjoying yourself. I too would love to hear her side of the story.

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. Hi Roz


      So would I love to find out what became of her maybe I will run into her and I will find out

      Bob

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  9. O Bob!!! It also reminded me of about 24+ years ago the first time Lee spanked me, it wasn't for fun, I told him to never touch me like that again! He did not for 23 years later. So glad I changed my mind, just took me longer than most. LOL! Molly is probably still thinking of that night, poor Molly and LUCKY LUCKY Bobbie!!!!

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    1. Hello Ashley lee

      There are days Bobbie doesn't think she is that lucky lol

      Bob

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  10. haha when I was a little I was playing "house" with this boy and he was my father and I disrespected him. I remember him looking at me and saying "daughter...if you ever do that again I'm gonna spank you." This little flutter happened inside of me and I remember us just staring at eachother....him not knowing AT ALL (at least I don't think?!) what he had done to my little eight year old self?! I've been a spanko my whole life...any fantasy I ever had about my future husband it was always us getting into some passionate debate and him ending it by spanking me lol. Good post. :)

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    1. Hello Ashly

      I am amazed at how much I remember of that night and I can't remember some of the things I did yesterday lol

      Bob

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  11. Hi Bob I cant help feeling that I have saw you in a whole new light LOL A little surprised but do wonder what happened to Molly!!! You never know she might well reply to this if she is out there in cyber space
    Had a laugh at your post though even if I wasn't quite expecting it
    LOL
    Jane

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  12. OMG...Bob...OMG..what had you done??????????(LOL)


    What a beautiful blogspot!
    Right, so you amused yourself with to spank girls .. Tsk, tsk ...
    Poor Molly, or should I say a happy Molly ? Who knows?

    Ok, Bob, so now we know that you are a SpankOOOOOO.
    Now just one more question:
    How did you become a SpankOOOOO?
    WHAT was it that triggered your spankOOOOOO nerve? It must be some trigger.

    And Bobbie ... give her lots of nice pleasant experiences that SHE experience as pleasant with the spanking and you'll see ...
    You know: smash, direct caress, to remove the sting, kiss and so on again, and again, and again .. lol ..
    Many greetings to you, Bob, and to Bobbie.




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  13. This post made me chuckle... but I get it. I think about spanking an awful lot. I was trying to talk about it one time and I told B, I have spanking kink... i'm interested in other things too, and I'll try about anything, but spanking was where it started for me.. it's the center of my kink.

    Bekah

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    1. Hello Bekah

      Yes it is hard to explain to someone that you are a spanko

      Bob

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  14. It proves my theory - spankos have a butt obsession... P certainly does :)

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    1. Hi DelFonte

      Lol I don't know about any one else butt I know I do WEG

      Bob

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