Wednesday, March 20, 2013

I still would love to get questions if you are interested in asking them


Questions & Answers



Rox: What is the most positive change you have seen in yourself and in your relationship since incorporating it?

 Several changes have happened since we have started this new lifestyle. We treat each other with more respect and we are more attentive to each other. I pay more attention when Bobbie is talking; I now put down what I am doing, look at her to make sure that I am hearing what she is saying. 

Bobbie’s temper is still there but not as volatile as it has been in the past. I can tell that she is really working on her temper, her mouth opens and then she shuts it right away then she walks away. J

Our communication skills have improved 10 fold.

 
MG:   Bob, this is my first comment on your page.

I wonder .. Usually starts with DD when something is not working in their marriage and want to change that and usually it's a woman who wants to change.

If I remember correctly, in your marriage, it was you who started with DD. Why? What was the purpose of that? I do not know if you use punishment spanking of your DD but if so, I wonder .... how can you persuade a strong, independent woman to take this pain? (Sincere said I do not understand how any woman can take it ..)

 
First of all let me say thank you MG for stopping by to ask me these questions.

Yes, I am the person that wanted a DD relationship in our house. I got tired of fighting over the same problems year after year and never getting past square one. I had to bring control back to our lives. We have used spanking as a punishment but mostly it’s taking something important away from her, books, TV, computer that is what hurts her the most.

We use spankings for erotic adventures, but we are talking about using it for punishment.

If I may make a suggestion to you, have Sincere explain the difference between good pain and bad pain that might help you understand it more. 

 
Julia:     How do you feel about corner time?

 
We used it a few times with limited effect; Bobbie hated it she said it was a waist of time because she thought of every thing but what she in the corner for. She did find some dust bunnies hanging on the ceiling though. J

 
Christina   What is the story of how you and Bobbie met? Did one or both of you fall in love right away? When did you know she was the one you were going to spend your life with?

If you had the chance to redo the career part of your life, would you make a change or keep the path you've taken?

How do you feel about potato chips? Love 'em/ Hate 'em/ Ambivalent about 'em?

 
Well in a galaxy far far away… opps wrong story A good friend asked me to go to her high school graduation party as she was saying hi to me she pored hot coffee on my lap.

She fell in love with me first after dating 6 weeks. It took me a few months to figure it out.  

I would not do any thing to change my career, I was blessed the way it went

No potato chips are allowed in the house because we would eat them in one sitting.

 

Cat    Hey Bob...Knowing what you know now, do you think there is anything you could have done when you and Bobbie first got together to successfully introduce TTWD into your relationship?

 

 I think about this question a lot more than I should and as much as I want to say yes, the sad truth is we just weren’t ready no matter what we did.  
 
 
Bob

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    1. Hi Sunnygirl

      Thank you for stoping by

      Bob

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  2. Hey Bob...I agree with Sunny...great answers. Thanks!

    Blessings,
    Cat

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    1. Hi Cat

      Thank you for the kudo's

      Bob

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  3. That was fun to read Bob. I always enjoy hearing the answers to everyone's questions.

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    1. Hi Menelie

      I enjoyed the questions, you can learn alot about the persons questions and answers

      Bob

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  4. Hi Bob, I enjoyed reading this. Great answers, thank you for sharing. Sounds as though you and Bobby are seeing some great benefits of ttwd :)

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. Hi Roz

      Thanks for asking the question
      This has helped us tremendously but we have along road ahead of us. Hopefully it will be fun along the way.

      Bob

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  5. Hi Bob. Great Q&A's. I know I'm a little late, are you still taking questions?

    If so, I'm wondering if, as a new HoH, did you in the beginning or still, worry about really hurting Bobbie? I know that was an issue for my hubby the first few times.

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  6. Hi queenie

    I will have an answer for you posted this Wednesday.

    Bob

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  7. Hi Bob,

    What is the biggest obstacle you have overcome in ttwd? How did you resolve it? Or is it ongoing?

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    1. I will answer your questions next post


      Bob

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  8. always fun to learn more about friends here...

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    1. Hi Tersichore.
      I have been trying to read all the question and answer post I can, it is fun learning about the other blogers.

      Bob

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  9. Interesting, Bob, specially as I am the man looking (belatedly) at introducing DD. We have been married 22 years already. I must say, you seem like a sensible, consistent guy, whereas I am diffident and inconsistent!

    I would like to ask you, Why THREE Ts in TTTWD in your blog header? What's the third one for?

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  10. Great answers! Thank you for sharing them with us! :-)

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  11. Thank you Christina for stopping by to read the answers

    Bob

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