I Support DD

 

MrBBSpanker from A Domestic Discipline Society is calling all DD bloggers to stand together, in the face of criticism, to stand up and be counted. Click  HERE to read MrBB's response.What DD has done for us is that it has given us the means to eliminate the power struggle between the two of us. There is no need for two leaders. It has shown us that one can lead and the other can assist in making decisions in where they want their relationship to go.

It has shown us how to communicate more because now that we operate as a team it is imperative to know what your partner is doing so that together we can make intelligent decisions. We find that we are helping each other more because I want to be with her, I want to make her life easier as she does mine. We don’t snip at each other as much and have learned to recognize when we are having problems and when they are starting to brew so we can nip them in the bud.

This blogging community is phenomenal. There are many occupations here from students to CEO’s writing about their successes and their trials and tribulations in their DD relationships. Yes, like any large community, there is disagreements and arguing going on but when someone is hurting everyone bands together to help. If there is a problem all you have to do is ask and many will respond with either kind words, prayers or advice that you might be able to use. 

Two good examples of this is when Bas lost his battle with cancer and passed away. Most of the people in blog land reacted with tears because a close friend was lost forever and posted on his blog one last time to say goodbye and another one is when a little girl was deathly sick the DD community held vigil prayers at 9pm, it was amazing the way everyone was informed how she was doing whenever an update was released.

We laugh at jokes, we cry or show concern when one of us is hurting. When we have good news or are proud of something that was accomplished everyone that reads your post celebrates and cheers with you. In some ways we are like real family and sometimes we are real family.