Work vs Wives

This post is just my opinion on how I see one of many problems that plague us in any type of loving relationship be it a DD, D/s or good old vanilla relationship, although this is geared for the DD relationship.

 

If our boss came up to us and told us that we were being promoted to regional sales and when we took the job over, would we do it as if we didn’t care in the world if it got done or not, or would we do our new job to the best of our abilities? Of course, we would give 100 percent of our attention to do your best because we now have people depending on us for instructions and guidance.

 

When our golfing, do we plan on shooting the highest score possible even though at times that is what it looks like we are doing, again the answer is no, we try to shoot our best lowest score.

 

When your aim is off and we are having a terrible day, do we tell our comrades that we will meet them in the clubhouse, although I have thought it would be better to have a few beers it’s a lot easier and less tiring. We would try adjusting our stance, your swing, heck at times I was so desperate I even changed the brand of the golf ball.

 

When changing a faucet do we buy the cheapest product that we can find or do we buy the middle to top of the line? Most of us probably would pick the middle of the road, why because it would hopefully last many more years than the cheap one.

 

Then why is it when our spouse comes up to us and tells us their deepest intimate secrets and possibly a solution to ending the strife and bickering and maybe even bring world peace to our marriages and what do we do? We don’t give it our full attention, here is an example, a wife comes up to her husband and explains to him that she has a desire to have a DD relationship in the household and after the particulars are ironed out between the two partners.

 

Everything is set and the husband and wife are on board, the first time a rule is broken we take her into the bedroom and conduct our business, spanking her as we said you would.

A few weeks or a couple weeks days later the same thing happens we are either tired or watching TV, it needs our attention but we don’t feel like dealing with it right now, so we tell her that tomorrow she will be spanked and we give her the reason why it is delayed. She may or may not be happy with our decision but she knows we are the one in charge and she waits thinking and analyzing what is going to happen. Then tomorrow comes, she wants expects us to follow through and so when it is time to pay the piper we tell her (put reason here).

 

She comes to us with a problem or a what if question, she wants our input and what do we tell her “I don’t know honey do whatever you want.” On the other hand, the one I am famous for is “let me think about it and I’ll get back to you” can you imagine what our clients would say if we did that to them? You bet they would be taking their business elsewhere.

 

No wonder she walks away hurt and pissed because we are sending her mixed messages that we don’t care or your feelings are not important right now, I will deal with it later after the game and then we have this blank stare on our faces and then complain that we cannot figure out why she is peeved at us.

 

Now if it was work and a problem came up more than likely we would be working hard to elevate the problem as fast as possible so it don’t get any bigger than it has and your job will run smoother when it’s fixed and cough, cough it gives us some free time.

 

So why would our marriage be any different from our job? (It should be more important because of all the fringe benefits she provides.) We have to invest time and energy in both for it to run properly, of course there will be days like at work we don’t want to deal with any problems but we know we have to in a timely manner because… well it’s our job. We get satisfaction seeing a project running smoothly or a project that was saved from disaster.

 

Now am I am not saying that if we give your time to this DD lifestyle all our problems will disappear. As with anything else, we are going to have good days and bad days hopefully more of the former than the later.

 

However, I do know one thing that by us trying to be consistent, what we will be showing our wives is that we are commented for the long haul and most importantly, we are telling her she is worth it. That little effort on our part by paying attention and showing her due respect that we do care and respect her this can reap tremendous rewards.

 

The only thing that they ask of us is to give TTWD the best shot that we can. If we do that we just might, maybe have peace in the household for at least a few hours and if not, at least we will be getting our exercise in by spanking the daylights out of them. Then after that… well I will leave that up to the two of you to work out. WEG

 

 

Bob