Wednesday, March 20, 2013


 

QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS CONTINUED

 

Queenie:  I'm wondering if, as a new HoH, did you in the beginning or still, worry about really hurting Bobbie? I know that was an issue for my hubby the first few times.


No that thought never crossed my mind because:

  1. Bobbie would not be on my lap if the spanking hurt her real bad, I do not force her to get a spanking she either accepts it or not.
  2. I am a spanko and besides what good is a spanking if it doesn’t hurt just a little? WEG.
  3. We have just incorporated punishment spankings and going slow with it.

Stormy :    What is the biggest obstacle you have overcome in ttwd? How did you resolve it? Or is it ongoing?


Bobbie’s procrastination, that by far drives me nuts when she tells me she will have xxx done by a certain time and then doesn’t do it.

That was the rule #1, no more procrastination, If she does do it, she knows that I will take certain things from her like reading, computer etc. We are incorporating spanking into the mix but going slow with it.

She still procrastinates L but she is more aware of it happening now and at times, she will tell me when she can’t make her appointed time. If the reason is fair then I will ask her when she will get it done and give her the time needed.

The reason I do it this way is that I want it all on her so she can’t say I was responsible for her not getting it done.

Malcolm:   I would like to ask you, Why THREE Ts in TTTWD in your blog header? What's the third one for?

It is This Thing That We Do, I thought that it would stand out from the other TTWD when you search for it on the web but it didn't. By the time I found out I just left it like that.
 




 

I have enjoyed answering your questions if there are any more please ask

 

Bob
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15 comments:

  1. RozMarch 20, 2013 at 5:02 AM

    Hi Bob,

    I enjoyed reading your answers. I think your wise to slowly incorporate spanking.

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. bobMarch 20, 2013 at 12:21 PM

      Thank you Roz for the kind words.
      Some times after doing it a few times one learns to tred slowly. :)

      Bob

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  2. abbyMarch 20, 2013 at 9:12 AM

    Love reading answers from HOH's. Thanks.
    hugs abby

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    1. bobMarch 20, 2013 at 12:22 PM

      Thanks for the questions I have enjoyed it more than I thought I would.


      Bob

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  3. QueenieMarch 20, 2013 at 11:15 AM

    Thanks for answering Bob. It is great hearing the views from the *other side* lol. I've never been forced to accept a spanking either, I hope everyone here can say the same. If not, that isn't DD in my opinion, that's abuse. I absolutely agree that a spanking that doesn't hurt is mostly useless. I do know my husband takes it easier on me than more experienced HoH's. From all I've read that will most likely change in time, so I'm going to enjoy it while I can :) I'm very sorry if you think I meant to imply that you were forcing anything on Bobbie. I absolutely didn't mean it like that at all. BTW, it would be fair to say my hubby and I are spankos too!

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    1. bobMarch 20, 2013 at 12:26 PM

      Queenie not once did I take offence in what you said I was just trying to answer your question the best way that I could.
      No harm no foul :)
      We are still friends unles you say other wise

      Bob

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    2. QueenieMarch 20, 2013 at 1:59 PM

      Then friends it is :)

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  4. Minelle LabraunMarch 20, 2013 at 4:28 PM

    I love the way you guys do things Bob...
    There is quite a bit of love coming through in your words!

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  5. bobMarch 20, 2013 at 4:50 PM

    You know how to make a man blush don't you?
    Thank you for your support of my blog. If I ever run for presidentsy I want you & PK for my campaign manager. All you gals are great


    Bob

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  6. CatMarch 20, 2013 at 9:24 PM

    Wonderful response Bob...you are doing very well. Good luck to you and Bobbie on your continuing journey.

    Blessings,
    Cat

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  7. bobMarch 21, 2013 at 10:02 AM

    Thank you Cat

    Bob

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  8. KenzieMarch 21, 2013 at 3:12 PM

    Hi there, just started a new blog about my husband and I trying ttwd and I came across yours. Really interesting to read about stuff from your side - i'll have to point my husband in the direction of your blog sometime. :) Also added a link to your blog on my page, hope thats ok :)

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  9. bobMarch 21, 2013 at 3:18 PM

    Welcome Kenzie

    I am honored that you are sending your husband this way.
    I hope we can both learn from each other

    Bob

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  10. MalcolmMarch 21, 2013 at 11:49 PM

    Thanks for your answer to my (rather trivial) question, Bob. Your answers to the questions of others have often been interesting and relevant to my situation.

    I would like to ask another, more important, question: How did you introduce the idea of DD to Bobbie? Was she willing from the start to accept DD? What was her initial reaction?

    I have to deal with procrastination then blaming it on me, as well as a bad temper easily roused at the slightest criticism. I would love to see the end of all that; but even a slight improvement would be good. In this country, time is regarded as inexact, and that doesn't help a man who is habitually punctual!

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  11. bobMarch 22, 2013 at 11:03 AM

    Hi Melcolm

    I have not forgotten about you I want think about how to answer your questions

    Bob

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