Thursday, March 28, 2013

More questions 3


Kenzie:   What is your dream vacation?

and if you had to throw out one of your spanking implements which one would it be?  

We would love to take a cruise to go to Alaska and stay on the main land for a week

What throw out one of my babies? No Way would Bobbie definitely be upset with me because I would only be throwing out one J

PK:   I do have a follow up question - what was Bobbies reaction the very first time you spanked her for something other than just a fun/sexy spanking. 

ES May  Because you initiated DD, I'm wondering how Bobbie handled her first spanking? Some of her other first punishments? And do you see a change in both of you now?

When Bobbie got her first spanking she was absolutely not a

Happy camper she swore that she would never put herself in that position again. She said that I hit her to hard and I made her cry. Three days later, we talked about it and she admits that it did help her and she has come to terms with it.

Before I spanked her I hit the inside of my forearm to gauge how hard I was going to spank her, when I hit myself it stung just a little.

I think that she cried because she was all pent up and didn’t know what I was going to do. I spanked her 9 times over her jeans with a light hairbrush.

This was her first punishment spanking so far there has been no other.

Yes, I have noticed a difference even from us doing it in just the bedroom we think before we bite each others head off,

We are more aware of our needs and we help each other more.
 


  Menilie  Do you find the TTWD lifestyle challenging, at times- or is it much easier than you expected?

No, challenging for sure I try to pay attention to Bobbie more than I have in the past, being consistent is tough for me because at times I am to laid back. I do more things around the house to make things easier for her. But I wouldn't give this up because she tries to do the same for me.



Bob

13 comments:

  1. Hi Bob,

    More great questions and I enjoyed your answers. Thank you for sharing.

    A cruise to Alaska has always appealed to me too. I wasn't a happy camper either when I had my first punishment spanking. I was a bundle of anxiety not knowing what to expect. It is a completely different ball game from erotic spanking.

    Hugs,
    Roz

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  2. We almost made to Alaska a couple of years agobut both moms got sick that year and we had to take care of them.

    Bobbie keeps telling me that I hit her to hard even to this day but I know I didn't. The best thing that cameout of it was that she hasadmitted that the spanking did help her out.

    Bob

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  3. Thanks for answering my questions, and the others as well. Its been fun to read your answers! I love cruising, sounds like thatd be a fun trip!

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    1. Thank you for the question.
      One day we will go on that cruise

      Bob

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  4. We really want to go to Alaska too. I would love to be sitting on the deck of a remote cabin in the back country. What could be better? That first punishment spanking is a shocker, no doubt. I think a lot of it is just not really knowing what to expect and being so tense and anxious.

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  5. I would love to take pictures of the eagles there and add them to my collection.

    Bob

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  6. I think Bobbie is pulling your leg about hitting too hard. I think most of it has to be in her head because it was the first time.

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  7. I think you are right, she can be so melodramatic at times. But we will see what happens the next time. :)

    Bob

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  9. Thank you so much for answering. :) We get to talk to men so little at times in blogland, or so it seems. So it's always interesting to see their takes on things. :)

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    1. Thank all of you for asking the questions, without all of you viewers there would be no answers.

      Bob

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  10. Great answers Bob...hope you and Bobbie make it on that cruise soon! ;)

    Blessings,
    Cat

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    1. Thank you Cat.
      One day we will go there.

      Bob

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