Hello everyone.
Not much going on in the DD front lines, both of us are still down and out her with the pain in her back (no I am not the cause of it) Jand me recovering from knee surgery, so as you can guess there are no stories to tell how bad Bobbie was or how I had to save the world from Bobbie’s antics WEG.
So let me tell you a bit about her, Bobbie is a fiercely independent woman who has no problem telling you what’s on her mind, she is a very loyal friend once she becomes your friend she will stick by you to the ends of the earth and woe be to the person that talks bad about her friends she will go toe to toe defending them. She is my best friend, supporter and is the only person that I know of that could destroy me in a heart beat but in the same breath she protects my heart as if it was made of the finest glass.
On the flip side of the coin Bobbie is also a very emotional being, she totally reacts on her feelings instead of her mind, she can cry at will (sounds familiar?), she is also at times is a very spoiled lady (my fault).
When we started DD, she was as vanilla as they came she didn’t want any thing to do with it because she thought that she was going to lose herself, she would no longer have a voice in any decision that was to effect our lives, she thought she would become like a Stepford Wife a mindless robot to due my evil bidding. Oh did I mention that she hated to get spanked?
What she found out through some reading material that I have given her plus a lot of persuading from me and us talking about it over a lot of coffee. She now realizes that she is still the same person as before except that now she no longer has to do it all by herself. She could now lean on me when she needs support and that she is still a valued person and not a mindless person. One who I will always come to ask for advice and confide in. She now believes that I have her best interest at heart and that I would never knowingly hurt her on purpose.
What she found out through some reading material that I have given her plus a lot of persuading from me and us talking about it over a lot of coffee. She now realizes that she is still the same person as before except that now she no longer has to do it all by herself. She could now lean on me when she needs support and that she is still a valued person and not a mindless person. One who I will always come to ask for advice and confide in. She now believes that I have her best interest at heart and that I would never knowingly hurt her on purpose.
Before the bottom dropped out a couple of months ago we were doing DD in the bedroom and was just about to bring it out of the bedroom into real life, but we had to put it on the shelf until we are well enough to pursue our new endeavor.
During our time in the bedroom she had taken to erotic spanking like fish to water, she has commented to me a few times that she misses the "us" time we have had together and that she can't believe how relaxed she was after her good girl spankings. So where are we now? We are in a holding pattern. We are getting stronger health wise, we talk about how we are going to make this our own in a week or two.
During our time in the bedroom she had taken to erotic spanking like fish to water, she has commented to me a few times that she misses the "us" time we have had together and that she can't believe how relaxed she was after her good girl spankings. So where are we now? We are in a holding pattern. We are getting stronger health wise, we talk about how we are going to make this our own in a week or two.
Hopefully when we both get better I will have some interesting tails to tell on how I HOH Bob vanquished the evil fire breathing dragon Bobbie by putting her into chains and…
(Well we’ll just have to see where that will take us)
Bob
Hi Bob,
ReplyDeleteFirst time that I visit here, I think.
As usual: Blame PK.
This Bobbie sounds very familiar.
I think I am married to Bobbies sister.
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DeleteThanks for stopping by Bas
DeleteIf it's not bobbie's fault then it's a given that it's PK's fault. LOL
If you're wife is like mine then you have your hands full with keeping her in hand. :-)
Bob
Okay guys, don't get too chummy, It makes us girls nervous. I'm really happy Bobbie took to erotic spanking so well, that a huge step. I'll be very interested in seeing how things progress as you both get well. And as you get all bossy and such, make it a rule she comes out here and talks to us.
ReplyDeleteHugs,
PK
It is our HOH's duty to talk to each other in case there is a new sassiness epidemic that might be running rampant in DD land, that way we can administer the proper medicine to our loving partner. WEG
DeleteYes that was a big step, her liking erotic spankings, but we will see how well she does when we lock horns.
I am sure she is going to provide me with a lot of stories to write about.
It might be a long time before she makes an appearance to the community.
Bob
She is my best friend, supporter and is the only person that I know of that could destroy me in a heart beat but in the same breath she protects my heart as if it was made of the finest glass.
ReplyDeleteGosh I love this. You are very lucky to have such a wonderful love.
I am glad you are both getting better and are taking this time to tweak your TTWD/DD dynamics. I look forward to the 'stories.'
Before I forget to thank you Minelle, I am in awe of the way you and PK has taken me under your wings and the time and effort that you 2 have put in convincing people to stop by and read my blog.
DeleteYes I am very lucky to have her or should I say that she would have me, hmmmmmm I think I'll flip a coin on this.
I am sure she is going to provide me with a bunch of stories to tell hehehe
Bob
Blame PK? I have never heard of that one. Blame Bas, on the other hand, is a great and useful strategy. Everything is Bas' fault. Hehe.
ReplyDeleteIt's nice to know more about Bobbie, and it's good to hear that you aren't pushing things. I hope you both recover soon and that you can go back to negotiating how much you get to spank her. hehe.
Yes of course we blame PK, she must be an awesome trouble maker from what I have read. Smiling
ReplyDeleteHow can it be poor Bas's fault we just found out that he is married to bobbie's twin sister that she never had.
Oh I plan on spanking her daily along with a few spank and grabs along the way.
Bob
Sounds like a great start!!
ReplyDeleteThank you Renee.
DeleteI can't wait for us to start.
Bob
Sounds like you are off to a good start, can't wait to hear more. Get better!
ReplyDeletehugs abby
Bobbie, little does she know she will be supplying me with a bunch of stories.
DeleteBob
Well Bob, Bobbie sounds like someone worth having. You are both lucky. I will enjoy reading your stories.
ReplyDeleteHope you both get well soon so you can resume those erotic spankings and whatever else you think you can get away with. lol
Thank you for the kind words Sunnygirl.
ReplyDeleteI was going to wait a couple of weeks but I have already started to swat her as she walks within spanking distance.
Bob
Hello! And nice to meet you! Looking forward to reading more!
ReplyDeleteThank you Julia for stopping by to say hi
DeleteOh hello to you to
Bob
Welcome Bob and Bobbie,
ReplyDeleteLovely blog and I hope to read here often.
hugs
lillie
Good afternoon instead mrs
DeleteThank you for the kind words about my blog.
Hope to see you here more
Bob
Just want to drop by and say hello.
ReplyDeleteSorry you and Booby are unwell but hope you are recovering.
Looking forward to getting to know you.
Hugs,
Catrinka
Thanks for stopping by Catrinka.
DeleteWe are getting better every thank you.
I am also looking forward to getting to know my guest more as the weeks ago by.
Bob
Hi Bob. I read one of your stories on PK's blog and enjoyed it so much, I just had to come read your blog too. It's great and I look forward to reading more about you and Bobbie.
ReplyDeleteThank Queenie for your kind words about my stories and especially my blog.
DeleteHope to see you more in the future :)
Bob
hope you are feeling better really soon so you can have some more "us" time. You sound like you have an amazing relationship and love for one another. Best wishes, Terpsichore :-)
ReplyDeleteWe are getting better every day and yes I can see some "US" time coming soon. Doing the happy dance yoohoo
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