tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post5892935208985694524..comments2023-10-26T05:38:25.954-04:00Comments on Thoughts On TTTWD: Thoughts On Spanking and DDbob http://www.blogger.com/profile/15987057772360831093noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-2246539634135023262013-10-23T21:40:58.387-04:002013-10-23T21:40:58.387-04:00Hello Dee
Yes to what you said
BobHello Dee<br /><br />Yes to what you said<br /><br />Bobbob https://www.blogger.com/profile/15987057772360831093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-23889564561765043282013-10-23T21:39:38.269-04:002013-10-23T21:39:38.269-04:00Hi Katie
Yes everything you said is so true thank...Hi Katie<br /><br />Yes everything you said is so true thanks for posting<br /><br />Bobbob https://www.blogger.com/profile/15987057772360831093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-7153840592436444202013-10-23T21:38:30.561-04:002013-10-23T21:38:30.561-04:00Hi Ros
I can't say anything about anyone else...Hi Ros<br /><br />I can't say anything about anyone else but for me I get a rush by spanking obbiebob https://www.blogger.com/profile/15987057772360831093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-27685503473031284692013-10-23T21:37:04.777-04:002013-10-23T21:37:04.777-04:00Thank you Roz
I agree with you there is so much g...Thank you Roz <br />I agree with you there is so much going on behind the scene when being spanked that volumes could be written about it<br /><br />Bob bob https://www.blogger.com/profile/15987057772360831093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-68430955063939350382013-10-23T04:29:35.478-04:002013-10-23T04:29:35.478-04:00Hi bob :)
I am a die hard spanko so I find it tota...Hi bob :)<br />I am a die hard spanko so I find it totally sexual, on ANY occasion. In terms of 'punishment', it's in the words/lecture that Mitch chooses. And this is where the difference for me lies. Even though I will become sexually aroused, (even if I don't actually feel it if you know what I mean?) my headspace is actually elsewhere. In short, I just can't control my body's reactions. Deehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04850836843301245812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-45763058618732831942013-10-22T20:06:33.991-04:002013-10-22T20:06:33.991-04:00I should probably add that I very much like the wh...I should probably add that I very much like the whole concept that DD and spanking as we use it in TTWD is all about what makes us feel loved and what better way to complete your feeling of being loved than to consummate it physically?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04954063955315002207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-35771409656624499372013-10-22T20:03:29.592-04:002013-10-22T20:03:29.592-04:00For me even disciplinary spanking have an underlyi...For me even disciplinary spanking have an underlying eroticism (even though I might not feel that way *during* the event). This comes not so much from the physical event, although I am generally 'wired' to enjoy being spanked, but from the fact that I find the Dominant/submissive - Authority/acquiescence (call it what you like) exchange to be hot.<br /><br />I'm going to say this really quickly before I duck to get away from all the rotten tomatoes and eggs flung by the group of people who will inevitably feel that I am bringing their 'serious' and 'real' DD dynamic down to the level of an erotic game, but I have to say that, although many people fervently deny that there can be any sexual component to DD, I have never yet met a single TiH who didn't describe exactly that same satisfaction and pleasure in what seems to them to be the 'rightness' of the D/s component in their relationships.<br /><br />I hope it's okay to post the link to another person's blog article here, but for me, this explanation by Angelbrat of how spanking can be an effective disciplinary tool, while still having erotic undertones, is a good one:<br /><br />http://angelbrat454.blogspot.co.uk/2005/07/spanking-spanko.html<br /><br />Ros Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04954063955315002207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-30636356223852618042013-10-22T15:11:43.674-04:002013-10-22T15:11:43.674-04:00Hi Bob, :)
I enjoyed reading here, as always! I ...Hi Bob, :)<br /><br />I enjoyed reading here, as always! I find it fascinating how well a spanking seems to work. I mean really? It just takes care of things in so many ways. There is the connection, the attention, the caring, the exchange of trust, the righting of wrongs at times, the reset, the redirection, the getting it all out, the closeness, and many more things. It blows my mind sometimes. <br /><br />The sexual stuff- yes there is certainly that I find. Rob has taken to spanking and he has admitted that he enjoys it. Now his spankings can hurt, but he is a bit of a softie at times, which I am perfectly okay with. He has come to realize that spanking turns him on. And that often leads to some very loving aftercare! It's kinda nice I say!!!! LOLOL! Many hugs,<br /><br /><3 KatieKatiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09502903951761571578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-23135803378741563462013-10-22T05:50:29.347-04:002013-10-22T05:50:29.347-04:00Hi Bob,
A great and thought provoking post! I th...Hi Bob,<br /><br />A great and thought provoking post! I think there is definitely a sexual element to spanking, even for self confessed spank-no's or when it is for punishment. It is a highly intimate act and invokes a range of emotions and creates a real connection. I think that is why it can be more effective than say corner time etc.<br /><br />I would say the reason it works as a punishment for spanko's is because of the different emotions involved. It is serious and there are negative emotions involved such as disappointment, remorse etc and of course, it is generally much more painful than a spanking for fun/reconnection/stress relief.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.com