tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post4142591386860903896..comments2023-10-26T05:38:25.954-04:00Comments on Thoughts On TTTWD: What goes through the mind of a HOH?bob http://www.blogger.com/profile/15987057772360831093noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-8258456714136140422013-04-02T13:55:25.803-04:002013-04-02T13:55:25.803-04:00Is it hot in here or is it because I am blushing??...Is it hot in here or is it because I am blushing??????<br /><br />Thank you Queenie for you very kind words<br /><br />Bob bob https://www.blogger.com/profile/15987057772360831093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-82818164956555321582013-04-02T12:21:44.146-04:002013-04-02T12:21:44.146-04:00You have no idea just how helpful it is to many of...You have no idea just how helpful it is to many of us to be able to gain insight into the mind of the HoH and how things look/feel from that perspective. I appreciate you sharing this Bob. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-33756197967598442872013-03-31T23:01:31.732-04:002013-03-31T23:01:31.732-04:00I am still process all this and it has given Bobbi...I am still process all this and it has given Bobbie and me something to talk about over coffee<br /><br />Bobbob https://www.blogger.com/profile/15987057772360831093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-19103000804057079032013-03-31T17:24:01.685-04:002013-03-31T17:24:01.685-04:00Hi Bob,
What great questions. I guess a lot goes ...Hi Bob,<br />What great questions. I guess a lot goes through my head as I receive a spanking. It really all depends on why I am being spanked on what really goes through my head. If its for punishment and what I have done has upset him, I feel awful. I feel awful for hurting him and most if my thoughts are about him and how I have disappointed him. How I so badly wish I wouldn't have done what I did to hurt him and how not to do it again. Then when it's over, I'm so thankful for him having a strong hand and for him spanking me and setting things right. As much as I hate punishment spankings, I also think they are the best ones. It shows me how much he cares about "us" and our marriage.<br />Kim~Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09349584751055182836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-19438519441090709792013-03-30T22:16:26.258-04:002013-03-30T22:16:26.258-04:00It was an odd feeling, me spanking her listening t...It was an odd feeling, me spanking her listening to her yelp then cry. I thought about it for a couple of days Bobbie got over it in a few hours.<br /><br />Bobbob https://www.blogger.com/profile/15987057772360831093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-80348061027287468002013-03-30T19:50:00.365-04:002013-03-30T19:50:00.365-04:00Great post! It is always great to hear what is go...Great post! It is always great to hear what is going on through and HoH's head. It actually helped me out a lot to read this. Thank you. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-55645196931128945162013-03-30T17:07:03.261-04:002013-03-30T17:07:03.261-04:00I always want to hear how you HOH's feel when ...I always want to hear how you HOH's feel when disciplining the TIH person. When I hear about the compassion as well as the determination it makes me feel like a dynamic is working the right way.Minielle Labraunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16206283897752166320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-58468055574238901062013-03-30T14:54:18.958-04:002013-03-30T14:54:18.958-04:00So true each experience is going to be different, ...So true each experience is going to be different, so when we find our little niche in DD land I think I am going to celebrate. :)<br /><br />Bob bob https://www.blogger.com/profile/15987057772360831093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-80282341084181311912013-03-30T12:26:55.060-04:002013-03-30T12:26:55.060-04:00I think from the point of view of the one staring ...I think from the point of view of the one staring at the floorboards, that a lot emotions run riot during a spanking. I have to say that most of them initially are to do with how much it hurts and whether or not you can escape from the line of fire, but pretty soon you start to listen and then you just let go and have a good cry. It is good for both of you. A totally cathartic experience. A forgiveness and a new start each time! The thing is, that everyone sees it differently and does it differently. The spanking is as individual as the couple practising TTWD. It's really good to have the perspective of an HOH from time to time though!<br /><br />Hugs<br /><br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-9134198539586584192013-03-30T10:29:43.175-04:002013-03-30T10:29:43.175-04:00Thank you PK
For reminding me I must not lose my...Thank you PK <br /><br />For reminding me I must not lose my compassion when the discipline spanking have to be done.<br /><br />Bob bob https://www.blogger.com/profile/15987057772360831093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9023923249541954368.post-39685282528515071002013-03-30T09:46:34.213-04:002013-03-30T09:46:34.213-04:00I like that you give it so much thought. It helps...I like that you give it so much thought. It helps me understand my man when those of you who are HOH's talk about your real feelings. Because you are thinking it means you are both growing in your relationship - you are not a rigid disciplinary, you are a loving husband who wants to improve your marriage. Well done.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.com