Wednesday, January 30, 2013

I Wish

I wish I were smart enough to know what Bobbie wants all the time, but I am not.

I wish I was strong enough to protect Bobbie from all her fears, but I am not.

I wish I could give Bobbie everything to make her happy, but I cannot.

However, I am smart enough to try to keep things from Bobbie that are bad for her

However, I am strong enough to hold her tightly and whisper comforting words in her ear that everything will be ok.

However, I can give Bobbie my unconditional love no matter what happens in our lives.

Monday, January 28, 2013

Who We Are

Well I guess it's time We introduce ourselves to blogdom.

MY name is Bob and my blushing bride's name is Bobbie, we have been an item for over 40 yrs.

I have been a spanko for as long as I can remember and Bobbie has ben refusing my kink for most of our time together but just recently she has taken a shine (in more ways than one) to this lifestyle.

About 3 yrs. ago I gave her a play spanking for some odd reason and she didn't protest like she used to and then we talked about what happened she couldn't explain it and to this very day she still can't say for sure why this is different than before but over the years she has grown to like it.

For awhile my domain was in the bedroom as soon as we where in the bedroom I had full control (well most of the time) I made it a point to make this time together as "US" time. The only rule we had was that we were to leave all our problems outside the door and what ever we did inside the bedroom was to focused on us .

Lo and behold she has started to focus on us as a team and we are no longer separate entities trying to do things our way but now we take each other into consideration on how it is going to effect their partner. Does it always work, not by a long shot but we do get more things done now than ever before.

Bobbie suggested during one of our coffee paw wows that she wanted to try doing this outside the bedroom. Needless to say I was aghast thinking she was going to come up with a list of things that I could and could not do.  She gave me no list but what she did give me was her trust and submission that I wont break it or willingly harm it in any way.

So now we are opening the door hand in hand walking out to try and figure out This Thing That We Do, so stop by every one in awhile to see where we are going, to encourage us and at time to chide us if you happen to see if we are heading off towards the cliff.

Bob and Bobbie

Sunday, January 27, 2013

Hello There

Yes this is yet another blog about TTTWD amongst all the other well received blogs and here I am starting another one. This blog will be more for me than any thing else, to write what I am thinking, doing and hopefully dazzling my blushing wife when we're hitting on all cylinders. Since you have stopped by grab a chair and have a drink and get to know each other, who knows maybe just maybe we can solve all the world problems or the very least learn from each other.